When a man falls in love, it is easy to be distracted by his physical attractions. However, if we keep our eyes firmly on the goal – his heart and soul – then the physical attraction will subside. We must also remember that men tend to move a lot slower than women when it comes to commitment. In fact, it has been said that a man’s life expectancy is less than twenty years! If he is not ready to make a lifetime commitment, it could take him much longer than women.
Han Tae-Sung, once a gangster, is now a successful businessman: One day, he falls for a woman called Seo Mi-Dae. At first, he is infatuated. She is beautiful and smart and he adores all about her. He wants to marry her, but before he can, he feels he must earn enough money to support his new bride.
When a man falls in love, he tends to be so caught up in the moment: that every time he thinks of Seo, he thinks about their future together. This is because men feel a strong need to have an abundance of things – material possessions and emotional security. Financial security is one of the most important things in a happy relationship. When a man feels he cannot provide the financial means to support a woman, he feels as though he is letting go of everything.
So, he wants to spend every possible moment: with her, appreciating and thanking her every time she is around. He is crazy about her. Of course, this is a man who has just met her and he is still in the discovery stage. He loves her sweet personality and wants to spend every chance he gets with her going on dates or at dinners. He wants to know what she is thinking and how he can make her life better. Of course, when a man falls in love with a woman, he wants to protect her.
In general, when a man falls in love: he feels like he is falling head over heels. However, it may not be that simple. There may be times when a man may feel like the woman he is with is not real. She is only a dream, or an ideal. She is someone he hopes will always be there for him and he will always find a way to be with her. That is why it is important to not take each other for granted and realize that the person he loves is not always going to be there.
Every man wants to be loved by the woman he is with: wants to be appreciated and wants to know how to get along with her. When a man falls in love, he wants his girlfriend to be the same. She should be supportive of him, listen to him when he needs to vent and give him honest feedback (and do it without criticism).
If a man’s girlfriend does all of these things, he feels secure enough in her and this will go a long way in making him happy and a true lover.